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Tuesday, May 26, 2009

there is no shame in not being the best

Today I went for my nth job interview. While I feel privileged to be selected for the interview by such a big international company (no hint), I wonder if I should feel equally grateful for the grilling session.

It is like the norm for interviewers to tell candidates scary stories like working OT or coming back in the weekend or stress and work piling up, but, to pick on the candidate? My interviewer today was like picking on the Bees in my result slips, saying I didn't gel my hair or didn't prepare a powerpoint presentation to sell myself. Huh? No doubt, first impression is important, but do I need to borrow Kangxi's clothes to impress?

Then just nice, my watch chose to run slow by 10 minutes and the interviewer blamed me for making him overshoot his interview time. While my watch was slow, I arrived 1 hour early for the interview, give it to him that makes me 50 minutes early. This sparked off another debate between preventing problem and rectifying problem. I don't see a problem. But if I had adjusted my watch 10 minutes faster, would I have earned bonus marks?

He said, I rank second from the bottom among the candidates so far. Seriously, if I'm not your best candidate, I don't need to waste my time listening to you saying I rank second from bottom. I don't have to act like unethical salesperson trying to sell something that doesn't perform as advertised. And while this may not sound suitable for schooling kids, but I don't see what's wrong with being at the bottom (motivational books will say the same thing). There is no shame in not being the best. And there is no loss in not getting an unsuitable job.

I am looking forward to my (n+1)th interview.

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26 Comments:

  • Wow he sounds so mean...
    Haha, yupz there's no shame in not being the best!!!
    Yeah!!! I agree!!!

    Lolx...

    By Blogger averii, at 5/26/2009 06:37:00 PM  

  • like the Chinese saying goes, you can kill a general but you can't insult him.

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/26/2009 06:41:00 PM  

  • that guy is just stupid la. better don't work there.

    By Blogger fiefie, at 5/26/2009 06:42:00 PM  

  • I dunno if he was real stupid or purposely behaved like that to test me out.

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/26/2009 06:43:00 PM  

  • That's one mean old grouch. He's either constantly pms-ing or loves being anal.

    You don't deserve to be put down like that.

    By Blogger *・yuka・*:, at 5/26/2009 06:53:00 PM  

  • Take it easy. There are many kinds of interviewing tactics and this might just be to 'test your EQ' - i.e. see your 'negative reaction'.

    By Blogger Xizor2000, at 5/26/2009 06:53:00 PM  

  • some idiots are like that, using the interview sessions to insult people. normally these kind are the ones who can talk big (aka smoke) but have no substance.

    So what if the interviewee can come super early or give you a solid presentation. in the end, it is whether he/she can get the job done that is important.

    Did that before. I would just end the interview halfway n tell him I dun find I am suitable working in his team and leave. At least it stop wasting both parties' time.

    By Blogger tiger4™, at 5/26/2009 07:29:00 PM  

  • You must think twice if he offered you the job.Is he from the HR department?

    By Anonymous Liau, at 5/26/2009 07:42:00 PM  

  • does he knows who you are?

    By Blogger uglyfatchick (Chicky), at 5/26/2009 07:45:00 PM  

  • yuka: it's alright. He doesn't deserve me getting worked up over either :)

    xizor: yup, that's possible too, at least I did piss him off significantly during the debate.

    tiger: I was so tempted to tell him that I don't think I am suitable. But heck, I have more time to waste than him.

    liau: not HR, engineer.

    chicky: erm which me? :P

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/26/2009 09:14:00 PM  

  • Damn... that's one weird interview. He's either testing you or just a real asshole.

    By Blogger Kenny, at 5/26/2009 10:35:00 PM  

  • he's a real eyeopener :P

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/26/2009 10:37:00 PM  

  • Asshole leh this fella. Got box him?

    By Blogger Fitness Fabulous, at 5/27/2009 09:24:00 AM  

  • just verbally niaoed him.

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/27/2009 10:02:00 AM  

  • @Fitness Fabulous: And get yourself in trouble over such asshole?

    @chillycraps: even u have tons of time to burn, it is better use in other areas like sleeping than on this pile of crap.

    By Blogger tiger4™, at 5/27/2009 10:32:00 AM  

  • definitely not worth it to get into trouble over such a-hole.

    lol, well, at least I have things to share with you guys! :P

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/27/2009 10:44:00 AM  

  • At least you got Beess.

    I got Cs and Ds, don't even have the chance to go for interview ! !

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5/27/2009 01:38:00 PM  

  • hey don't be disheartened! There will surely be one that suits you!

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/27/2009 02:56:00 PM  

  • Hmm..What an unusual experience for u..Haha! Well, gd luck to ur (n+1)th interview..dun worry...on a positive note, u have n times of interview experience..just dun go for those niao companies..u'll suffer in the end if they are so "gae gao"

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5/27/2009 08:13:00 PM  

  • thanks anonymous! Well, it's hard to tell whether those companies are niao or not... in fact when I applied for the job and was told to be selected for the interview, I thought it's like so prestigious...

    But prestige can't fill the stomach, I suppose.

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/27/2009 08:49:00 PM  

  • it's better than having the interviewer telling you that you are suitable for the job but never give it to you. Sucks to the max.

    By Anonymous gary, at 5/29/2009 01:52:00 AM  

  • gary: wow that's like promising a kid a toy and not giving him!

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/29/2009 07:39:00 AM  

  • horrible interviewer. horrible company. very bad way to do things.

    By Blogger snoookems, at 5/29/2009 05:40:00 PM  

  • oh well... but if you can survive the horrible session, maybe they will want you.

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 5/30/2009 09:26:00 AM  

  • read your posting with empathy.. wat to do, it's the employer market now! Still, there is no need for the interviewer to be such a snob, probably reflects the "prestigious" culture of the company... Good luck for the rest of the interviews =)Jia you

    By Blogger Cynthia, at 6/01/2009 02:19:00 PM  

  • hi Cyn! Some say it's an interview technique, well..... still.... :S

    Thanks for the well wish!

    By Blogger chillycraps, at 6/01/2009 04:38:00 PM  

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