its unhealthy (though people do it) to take on guilt for someone feeling bad over things that was not caused by you.
You can care for someone, but you don't have to take on the guilt esp if you are not guilty.
you need to know where to draw the line and not take on other people's problems as your own
that will be $50 for counselling...
-- my counsellor
By 
tstar, at 9/28/2006 09:44:00 AM
eh.. bro.. wad happened to you sia..
pay for counselling.. hmmmm...
anyway.. your counsellor.. is he/she a psychologist too?? hahhahaa..
By DJ Niwde, at 9/28/2006 12:46:00 PM
to be exact, my counsellor is a computer engineer by training, public servant by vocation.
If I take his words think I'll be fine.
By chillycraps, at 9/28/2006 03:05:00 PM
nice border!
By snoookems, at 9/28/2006 07:57:00 PM
which border?
By chillycraps, at 9/28/2006 08:40:00 PM
think she means the side bar. well, good, at least u've got a supporter. I still think it looks like flowers and I still prefer the spanner.
By tstar, at 9/28/2006 08:46:00 PM
Well... I never have this problem...
I wonder was it because I'm too indifferent??
Well... At least this shows that you do care alot for others... Just try not to go overboard??
:-p
By averii, at 9/28/2006 09:42:00 PM
okie~
By chillycraps, at 9/29/2006 07:30:00 AM
wah.. care for me also leh. hehe =)
but yeah, sometimes.. just try your best to help your friends in whichever ways you can.
also, you don't have to feel obliged to help settle everything, because if you can't, you'd feel bad.
cuz, like what your counsellor mentioned, that'd be taking on other people's problems as your own. :)
take care.
thanks~ fab.
cos I feel that her problem was caused by me, so I feel guilty that she is suffering from it.
It is like hit and run... the culprit will feel guilty for life.
By chillycraps, at 9/29/2006 09:35:00 PM
Don't be stupid. That girl is not your responsibility. Make yourself suffer only.
By tstar, at 9/30/2006 12:33:00 AM
orh...
By chillycraps, at 9/30/2006 04:50:00 PM
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